hey guys....my honey, 've this serious issue with my guy. we av being together now since late december but shit, i just found out that he snores . i really hate guys who snore and i hate that about him. when i found out he snores and it was shit ....i thought it wont be that of a problem cos the sex is so good and he takes care of my needs, but then that snoring bothers me very much!!!! its just irritates and when we sleep together i feel like giving a slap so he can shut it , but i guess that wont help either...... i really love him and him but i cant take those irritating snores!!!! i am thinking of just quitting the the whole thing and remain friends, pls what do u think??
Posted: at 22-01-2009 06:42 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
Feranmi4 at 22-01-2009 06:46 PM (15 years ago) (m)
gudday i just want 2 say dat if u really luv him dat wud nothin 2 u.
Posted: at 22-01-2009 06:46 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
blessedchidon at 22-01-2009 06:59 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Looking at ur comment, u don't love him at all just bcos he takes care of you..u only love his pocket....am sorry 4men who stupidly spend just for sex or fun making........U won't mary him am sure of that so better let him know.....don't u know real love covers everything?
Posted: at 22-01-2009 06:59 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
sweetsandy at 22-01-2009 07:39 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: blessedchidon on 22-01-2009 06:59 PM
Looking at ur comment, u don't love him at all just bcos he takes care of you..u only love his pocket....am sorry 4men who stupidly spend just for sex or fun making........U won't mary him am sure of that so better let him know.....don't u know real love covers everything?
love cover all kp love expose all ni!!??? my girl friend experienced the same thing n she had true love but dont make her to start to like that horrible sound of a thing .....she only tried to bear it love dont turn snoring to music, does it??...or are we talking about thesame thing here ?
Posted: at 22-01-2009 07:39 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
Beautydiva at 22-01-2009 08:00 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Decide for urself wot u want 2 do but remember being in a relationship involves sacrifice. If he sacrifices his money & 'd sex is good', why don't u discuss it with him and maybe support him in seeking medical help/finding a solution instead of bringing it on here. Remember dat as he has his weakness, so do u have urs. U need 2 be more tolerant. If u 'really luv him as u claim', u won't slag him in wot u wrote. Just hear yourself in ur 3 last lines, ur words are 2 harsh.
Posted: at 22-01-2009 08:00 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
vivian07 at 22-01-2009 08:05 PM (15 years ago) (f)
i guess if u love the guy the way u claim,u will tolerate his short coming.even if it means sacrificing ur sleep,cos he sacrifice his hard earned money for ur up keep. girl that's not an excuse.show the broda some love.
Posted: at 22-01-2009 08:05 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
princemech at 22-01-2009 08:11 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: sweetsandy on 22-01-2009 06:42 PM
hey guys....my honey, 've this serious issue with my guy. we av being together now since late december but shit, i just found out that he snores . i really hate guys who snore and i hate that about him. when i found out he snores and it was shit ....i thought it wont be that of a problem cos the sex is so good and he takes care of my needs, but then that snoring bothers me very much!!!! its just irritates and when we sleep together i feel like giving a slap so he can shut it , but i guess that wont help either...... i really love him and him but i cant take those irritating snores!!!! i am thinking of just quitting the the whole thing and remain friends, pls what do u think??
NAIJA BABES AND THERE LOVES......JUST BECUZ OF SNORING U WANT TO QUITE THE RELATIONSHIP
WELL MAY GOD REVEW U WHAT LOVE IS.......BECUZ U DO KNOW IT
Posted: at 22-01-2009 08:11 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
serene_child at 22-01-2009 09:11 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: vivian07 on 22-01-2009 08:53 PM
Quote from: Kennee on 22-01-2009 08:13 PM
Some ppl can Stand Snoring... Some Can't
As for me, even that adorable one (Like a little cat whistling) dey kill me... Not to talk of the Lion type
Quote from: serene_child on 22-01-2009 08:37 PM
lol....snoring is not sexy at all...
don't forget that its not a deliberate act.what if u snore? does it mean u will not be loved by any woman?
i don't think u've slept with someone who snores before.....u cannot sleep for 1 hour straight!!...and meanwhile the dude is snoring loudly because he's deeply and soundly asleep.
YOU BE THE KING,I'LL WEAR THE CROWN...DEAL?
Posted: at 22-01-2009 09:11 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
vivian07 at 22-01-2009 10:02 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: serene_child on 22-01-2009 09:11 PM
Quote from: vivian07 on 22-01-2009 08:53 PM
Quote from: Kennee on 22-01-2009 08:13 PM
Some ppl can Stand Snoring... Some Can't
As for me, even that adorable one (Like a little cat whistling) dey kill me... Not to talk of the Lion type
Quote from: serene_child on 22-01-2009 08:37 PM
lol....snoring is not sexy at all...
don't forget that its not a deliberate act.what if u snore? does it mean u will not be loved by any woman?
i don't think u've slept with someone who snores before.....u cannot sleep for 1 hour straight!!...and meanwhile the dude is snoring loudly because he's deeply and soundly asleep.
love bears all things.
Posted: at 22-01-2009 10:02 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
beatmaster at 22-01-2009 11:03 PM (15 years ago) (m)
lady,you have to check yourself before you wreck yourself.The person in question is a living being and so must be respected.If you were leaving for any other reason, i will understand. But to say because he snores,it shows your love is highly limited or very conditional.
Its very possible that he either has weight problem or he is very exhausted due to nature of his job or most likely after a good round of sex which you agreed at least you enjoy.The bottom line is communication is what keeps a relationship.Talk with him about this issue and assist him morally and otherwise to get over this phase of his life and enjoy him the more.
Posted: at 22-01-2009 11:03 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie