Open Discussion: Do Your Partner's Social Skills Embarrass You?

Date: 29-02-2012 9:48 am (12 years ago) | Author: aadex kebella
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Couples may be very happy together, but a partner's social behavior can humiliate the other.

"I love my husband," confided a 50 year old "Martha". "But I and my husband are only happy when we are together or with our children. My husband hates to socialize with others. If I insist he does, he is either rude or refuses to speak."

What can one do in this type of situation ?


Posted: at 29-02-2012 09:48 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- Idbabe at 29-02-2012 10:51 AM (12 years ago)
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Dis-socialize then to make him happy.  Shikina
Posted: at 29-02-2012 10:51 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Adikpe at 29-02-2012 10:57 AM (12 years ago)
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This is down to individual difference, and also the background one comes from.

Not socialising at all is bad, also too much of it can hurt a relationship.
One should know what his/her partner likes or doesn't like and try to treat
him/her accordingly. That is the foundation of a good and viable relationship.
Posted: at 29-02-2012 10:57 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- agbonson at 29-02-2012 11:52 AM (12 years ago)
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 Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided
Posted: at 29-02-2012 11:52 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sophiebaby at 29-02-2012 12:03 PM (12 years ago)
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the picture doesnt even have anytin to do with socialty,,..lol Grin..

i will Dis-socialize to make him happy.. Grin

Posted: at 29-02-2012 12:03 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- 50scent at 29-02-2012 12:25 PM (12 years ago)
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as what  Sad

Posted: at 29-02-2012 12:25 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- mediaexcell at 29-02-2012 12:30 PM (12 years ago)
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they didnt learn social study in kcool, if na ur wife hire me i will teach her.. Lips Sealed
Posted: at 29-02-2012 12:30 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- malvin2525 at 29-02-2012 01:03 PM (12 years ago)
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 Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh?
Posted: at 29-02-2012 01:03 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- prosperos at 29-02-2012 01:06 PM (12 years ago)
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some days are like that
Posted: at 29-02-2012 01:06 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- HOPEA23 at 29-02-2012 01:32 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Adikpe on 29-02-2012 10:57 AM
This is down to individual difference, and also the background one comes from.

Not socialising at all is bad, also too much of it can hurt a relationship.
One should know what his/her partner likes or doesn't like and try to treat
him/her accordingly. That is the foundation of a good and viable relationship.
you have said it all

Posted: at 29-02-2012 01:32 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- 50scent at 29-02-2012 02:27 PM (12 years ago)
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 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy

Posted: at 29-02-2012 02:27 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 29-02-2012 02:41 PM (12 years ago)
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 Angry Angry

Posted: at 29-02-2012 02:41 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 29-02-2012 02:45 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: mediaexcell on 29-02-2012 12:30 PM
they didnt learn social study in kcool, if na ur wife hire me i will teach her.. Lips Sealed

 Grin

Posted: at 29-02-2012 02:45 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Tomnwakor at 29-02-2012 02:54 PM (12 years ago)
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nothing!
Posted: at 29-02-2012 02:54 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ssstrawberry at 29-02-2012 03:15 PM (12 years ago)
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Snizzing
Posted: at 29-02-2012 03:15 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Diamond4u at 29-02-2012 03:23 PM (12 years ago)
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k
Posted: at 29-02-2012 03:23 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Angelita2 at 29-02-2012 03:48 PM (12 years ago)
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 Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed
Posted: at 29-02-2012 03:48 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- verah at 29-02-2012 04:11 PM (12 years ago)
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hhhhhhhhmn if socializin is wat maks me happy i will continue to socialize but nt too much.. y should i stp my hapiness all cos my husband dosent lik it..well let him go get somtin doin while i socialise abi it as simple as that

Posted: at 29-02-2012 04:11 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- zoe61 at 29-02-2012 09:05 PM (12 years ago)
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then let him be if he don't like don't force him.
Posted: at 29-02-2012 09:05 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- toibeli at 29-02-2012 09:35 PM (12 years ago)
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Hell NO
Posted: at 29-02-2012 09:35 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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