Why do we find is difficult to say AM SORRY?

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at 11:28 AM, 10/03/2012 (6 years ago)
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"I'm sorry" has been, and always' will be, the beginning of an admission that you were wrong or you have done something that really hurt someone. Saying "I'm sorry" is a way of trying to make the situation better.

Why do we find it difficult to say am sorry?

No insult pls.


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winace at 12:39 PM, 10/03/2012 (6 years ago)
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Ego problem
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bittersweet at 01:43 PM, 10/03/2012 (6 years ago)
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For some ppl it's the fear of rejection that makes an apology so hard to say.The prospect of getting a cold shoulder,not being forgiven or losing a friend can understandably be unsettling,especially when it comes from someone u still love,care about and want to maintain a relationship with.Sometimes ppl feel it like a sign of weakness.
If they apologize, it can make them feel vulnerable, or feel like they are in danger of losing their power and status.
Some ppl find saying they’re sorry humiliating.
Some just prefer staying in denial...

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jastaco at 01:53 PM, 10/03/2012 (6 years ago)
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Because of pride.
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Treasure2 at 02:01 PM, 10/03/2012 (6 years ago)
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Quote from: winace on 12:39 PM, 10/03/2012
Ego problem
Why Ego problem?
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Treasure2 at 02:02 PM, 10/03/2012 (6 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 01:43 PM, 10/03/2012
For some ppl it's the fear of rejection that makes an apology so hard to say.The prospect of getting a cold shoulder,not being forgiven or losing a friend can understandably be unsettling,especially when it comes from someone u still love,care about and want to maintain a relationship with.Sometimes ppl feel it like a sign of weakness.
If they apologize, it can make them feel vulnerable, or feel like they are in danger of losing their power and status.
Some ppl find saying they’re sorry humiliating.
Some just prefer staying in denial...

Speaking from the heart, Tnx sweetie.
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Treasure2 at 02:04 PM, 10/03/2012 (6 years ago)
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Saying "I'm sorry" is an essential way of starting all over where there is hurt and betrayal.
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Emysweetest at 04:25 PM, 10/03/2012 (6 years ago)
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Ego and pride. Atimes we feel it makes us luk weak, especially wen we d other person is at fault.
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Treasure2 at 08:37 PM, 11/03/2012 (6 years ago)
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Quote from: Emysweetest on 04:25 PM, 10/03/2012
Ego and pride. Atimes we feel it makes us luk weak, especially wen we d other person is at fault.
seconded.
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gimac at 08:50 PM, 11/03/2012 (6 years ago)
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To average person in the world :the word SORRY means accepting defeat,what ever that happen was done intentionally
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onyiis at 08:53 PM, 11/03/2012 (6 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 01:43 PM, 10/03/2012
For some ppl it's the fear of rejection that makes an apology so hard to say.The prospect of getting a cold shoulder,not being forgiven or losing a friend can understandably be unsettling,especially when it comes from someone u still love,care about and want to maintain a relationship with.Sometimes ppl feel it like a sign of weakness.
If they apologize, it can make them feel vulnerable, or feel like they are in danger of losing their power and status.
Some ppl find saying they’re sorry humiliating.
Some just prefer staying in denial...


very true

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gimac at 08:58 PM, 11/03/2012 (6 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 08:37 PM, 11/03/2012
seconded.

objected
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jossy4reall at 10:16 AM, 12/03/2012 (6 years ago)
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I personally dont find it difficult.........for eg....I can call u anything I like and tell u am sorry............. just like dis poster u are Lips Sealed..........am sorry

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FlyMamacita at 10:50 AM, 12/03/2012 (6 years ago)
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I go with BS
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xter at 01:05 PM, 12/03/2012 (6 years ago)
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I never find it difficult to apologize only if I'm wrong

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HOPEA23 at 01:20 PM, 12/03/2012 (6 years ago)
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Ego...somepple feel like they don't need to say i am sorry even though they are wrong...they find it as an insult to dem to bring demselves low, but they fail to realize that submissive respect or humble put dem to the upper level.
say i am sorry is not going to harm any tissue from one body....

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sophiebaby at 01:28 PM, 12/03/2012 (6 years ago)
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if BS talk..i no fit comment again...She said it all

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onyiis at 01:52 PM, 12/03/2012 (6 years ago)
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Quote from: xter on 01:05 PM, 12/03/2012
I never find it difficult to apologize only if I'm wrong

 Grin Grin Grin

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sophiebaby at 01:58 PM, 12/03/2012 (6 years ago)
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he twisted his ansa

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FlyMamacita at 08:20 PM, 12/03/2012 (6 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 01:28 PM, 12/03/2012
if BS talk..i no fit comment again...She said it all

Na so she kill my topic b4 nah  Grin Grin
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