He will recognize himself in me......My answer to all the messages I have receiv

I have received so many messages from men asking me what I desire in a man, so below please find my answer I do not have time to reply to all of the messages, hopefully those that sent such will read.



I need someone who is striving for excellence in all aspects of life.  Especially mentally because I need a man that I can have a conversation with.

I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster.

I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don't need a financial burden. It is of the essence that my future mate is capable of taking care of himself, as I am capable of taking care of myself. I believe in the Bless Many and Burden few policy.

I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded.

I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies and game-playing are not my idea of a strong man.

I need a man who is family-oriented. One who can be the leader, and provider to the lives entrusted to him by God.

I need someone whom I can respect... In order to be submissive, I must respect him.I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business.

And by the way, I am not looking for him...He will find me.
He will recognize himself in me.He may not be able to explain the connection, but he will always be drawn to me.
God made woman to be a help-mate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself.

Empress_Ameera

Thank you for your response, I am comfortable with remaining single for the rest of my life darling.  To be quite frank it is sad that you feel as a man that you cannot be all of that to your mate. As all things mentioned are the things that we all should have when coming together to build a wonderful relationship/marriage. I never once mentioned that I wanted a perfect nor rich man. Yet I do desire a man that can provide for himself, and that is humble enough to embrace his imperfections.

U'll grow mustarch and not find 2 of all dis qualities in one man. Wen beautiful women neva shakara, u dey show ursef. anyways, I kno say na advert u dey sha

Thank you for responding you are entitled to share your thoughts.....