In case it become necessary to use condom while at play, Whose duty is to provide one? For example both of you are in a relationship...,  not yet married but just lovers who took a weekend holiday trip to another town and lodged in a hotel.

Should it be the duty of man or lady to provide condom and as well be sure that it is being used!

I have been asked WHY having them, by someone who accused me of cheating on her because I had few packets in my small bag.

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Posted: at 19-08-2010 02:20 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

The more common is the male condom, therefore they (the men) are expected to provide it........but then I think whoever is mindful of the so many risks involved in unprotected sex should provide it and make sure it is used...........

Posted: at 19-08-2010 02:25 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

anybody can

Posted: at 19-08-2010 02:26 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

The more common is the male condom, therefore they (the men) are expected to provide it........but then I think whoever is mindful of the so many risks involved in unprotected sex should provide it and make sure it is used...........

Yeah, U are right, but what happens when the guy is labeled  a "cheater" coz he has it in his possession of which it's normal for every reasonable person to always keep some with U

Posted: at 19-08-2010 02:33 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

The more common is the male condom, therefore they (the men) are expected to provide it........but then I think whoever is mindful of the so many risks involved in unprotected sex should provide it and make sure it is used...........

Yeah, U are right, but what happens when the guy is labeled  a "cheater" coz he has it in his possession of which it's normal for every reasonable person to always keep some with U

Hmmm, your babe doesnt trust you then......but you know I dont blame her much............why not try and educate her on the reason behind carrying that around.........

Posted: at 19-08-2010 02:36 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

[Don't put it in ur bag!leave it @ home.]

Don't put it in ur bag!leave it @ home.

Posted: at 19-08-2010 02:44 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

The more common is the male condom, therefore they (the men) are expected to provide it........but then I think whoever is mindful of the so many risks involved in unprotected sex should provide it and make sure it is used...........

Yeah, U are right, but what happens when the guy is labeled  a "cheater" coz he has it in his possession of which it's normal for every reasonable person to always keep some with U

Do u use it with her ? because if u dont use it with her thats when she could be suspecting a foul play but just like DP said educate her of the need to always be prepare like the Boys' scout will say

Posted: at 19-08-2010 02:44 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

lol, are u talking of trust! is not the same trust most women talk about....,   still they so much believe that not matter what, men will always cheat...., as if cheating is in their nature!

Posted: at 19-08-2010 02:44 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

[Don't put it in ur bag!leave it @ home.]

Don't put it in ur bag!leave it @ home.

But they were out on weekend holiday, so how  could it be at home when he is outside in a hotel

Posted: at 19-08-2010 02:46 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

[Leave it @ d hotel na abi u no get key?]

Leave it @ d hotel na abi u no get key?

Posted: at 19-08-2010 02:46 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

The more common is the male condom, therefore they (the men) are expected to provide it........but then I think whoever is mindful of the so many risks involved in unprotected sex should provide it and make sure it is used...........

Yeah, U are right, but what happens when the guy is labeled  a "cheater" coz he has it in his possession of which it's normal for every reasonable person to always keep some with U

Do u use it with her ? because if u dont use it with her thats when she could be suspecting a foul play but just like DP said educate her of the need to always be prepare like the Boys' scout will say

Yes, to avoid unwanted pregnancy!

Posted: at 19-08-2010 02:47 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

lol, are u talking of trust! is not the same trust most women talk about....,   still they so much believe that not matter what, men will always cheat...., as if cheating is in their nature!

But you men have by your actions or otherwise made us to understand that it is your right and privilege to cheat.....you guys keep saying that we shouldnt expect you to eat same food everything.......who dey talk am?......no be men?

Posted: at 19-08-2010 02:48 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

anybody can. i have 6 pacs in my purse. if he doesnt have, and d tin don hungry us wella and e wan comot go buy,, i'll bring mine out then we use.

Posted: at 19-08-2010 02:50 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

[Y should u be carrying a ballon(s) around r u a baby?]

Y should u be carrying a ballon(s) around r u a baby?

Posted: at 19-08-2010 02:50 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

[Leave it @ d hotel na abi u no get key?]

Leave it @ d hotel na abi u no get key?

You know hotel is never a home for anyone neither do one own it permanently

Posted: at 19-08-2010 02:50 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

[Y should u be carrying a ballon(s) around r u a baby?]

Y should u be carrying a ballon(s) around r u a baby?

Posted: at 19-08-2010 02:50 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

[Leave it @ d hotel na abi u no get key?]

Leave it @ d hotel na abi u no get key?

You know hotel is never a home for anyone neither do one own it permanently

It is ur place once u r given d room & have d key.

Posted: at 19-08-2010 02:51 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

lol, are u talking of trust! is not the same trust most women talk about....,   still they so much believe that not matter what, men will always cheat...., as if cheating is in their nature!

But you men have by your actions or otherwise made us to understand that it is your right and privilege to cheat.....you guys keep saying that we shouldnt expect you to eat same food everything.......who dey talk am?......no be men?

Yeah, but it should be taken to all men character, do all women possess same characters? 

Posted: at 19-08-2010 02:53 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

is de guy cos if my gurl friend provides condom for me, from dat day i will withdraw de trust i have for her

Posted: at 19-08-2010 02:54 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

[Y should u be carrying a ballon(s) around r u a baby?]

Y should u be carrying a ballon(s) around r u a baby?

lol, that question has double answers, YES and NO

Posted: at 19-08-2010 02:54 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

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