am not sure your 11 yr old cousin can answer that.............pals dnt be too close minded, this is a very important qtn. Alot of people dont know the benefits and the problems attached with it when a divorce arises. I see............i know the kind of stories u guys think is meaningful, controversial stories i guess that bring quarrels and argument, those people calling others kids are the real kids in mind, others commenting do it because of people's comment that they read......i dnt like this, like they say the truth is a bitter pill to swallow