I've read posts in this forum and I must confess,the forum is really cool and full of mature minds.
I'm a corper serving in the East (I'm from Calabar).There is a female corper also serving in the same company with me (she's Yoruba).At first we were only on greeting terms as per corper levels.But now,we are very friendly and I guess I must be open;very intimate.
The problem is that recently,my Boss (A young and very nice chap) came back from the Senior Staff bar one day and asked me what the girl and I had in common.I opened up to him and he warned me to be careful,because managers are toasting the chick but she is giving them the blank NO.
To add salt to injury,other corpers who work in the Admin section have been telling me that Managers are asking who the girl is going out with,because they know she is dating a corper.
I've told my girl the situation,and that we should be on the low-especially at work.But the girl is so obsessed with love that she would not stay at least an hour without calling.
My boss is backing me and so are other guys in my department,but the thing is they are all junior to the Ogas in Admin.
I love Dee (thats her pet name),cos she really changed my perception about women,especially from her tribe.Staying away from her will hurt her and I've sworn never to hurt her.But then what about the safety of my job.That's why I want help and I mean expert help.
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