Seeking god's counsel here is paramount. What if the lady in question has been sent to destroy ur joy, why didn't ur fiancé exhibit self control to ward the enemy off? What will happen if u end up with him? What if u cancel this wedding, when will mr. right show up? All these questions & more. Only God knows the answers. So, my dear I advice that u pull urself 2gether in fasting and prayer, God doesn't forsake a broken and contrite spirit, He'll give u direction.
Wonderland Wedding is just for one day, after which you start counting numerous weddings that are better than yours. Go and ask Kim Kardashian and Princess Kate! Much ado about nothing.......They'll tell you. Try and enjoy ur man and have a fruitful marriage.