| @Poster: i presume she's a Catholic!
You see, Christianity is not all about your spouse being of the same church/religion with you. Different religions do get married; So what are we talking about? To me, what matter is your happiness and not that of your mother. If she cares about your happiness, then she should learn to accept what you love and cherish. After all, the lady will change when you both get married. So what! Honestly, if my mother should tell that, hmm! i don't need to say what i will do because she knows me too well. If i may ask was her great grand father or family (I mean your mother) born in that church? Even at that, dose it matter?
My Advice, dear Pal! If you marry who she wants in other to make her happy, without putting first in consideration your future happiness, you are making a grievous mistake and i wouldn't want to say, you may not be happy all through it, because, "Love" grows day by day. Am very sorry to say, if she's no more, (Ur Mother) who will be there for you? The one you love? or the one she loves that you married? well, if you love her so much like that, you can go ahead and marry from her church, with time you will love her (the new girl). But have you thought about your spouse feelings, the years you've both spend together, the love shared, the though and nice moments? Think and think wisely, what is worth doing at all so they say...is worth doing well! |
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