Firstly i would like to ask you to know what happened to your mode of reasoning before you started the afair? Did you just jumped into it? Listen young girl, i must say i am so disapointed in you because after investing so much and actually hoping deep deep down in your heart that one day God will elevate his(your surpose man) status, now you are throwing all away? what happened to the sweet memories..you never mentioned any! That shows how descipline you truely are. Why dont you just tell him straight to his face that you ust won Micheal Jackson relative's heart and achieving enough chocolate on your way back from work each day? Go ahead...am sure he will understand that better as long as you dont get similar from him. Think again