Anything that goes with sin is a sin,so as romance and kissing goes with fornication is a sin but if you still doubt it,do it to your sister or allow somebody do it to your sister in front of you let me see wheather you will be smiling or happy.

Church is like a food we eat,you know every food can be eaten but some food are better than others,so does church.in my church my pastor preach salvation all the time and always remind us about eternity,when every soul will be rewarded according to his deed on earth weather good or bad.infact change your church if your church can change you and still be on the race for HEAVEN.