I met this girl when i came to Nigeria from Japan last 4 months,proposed to her for marriage and went to see her parent.After 1 month i left back the country i discovered that the Lady never pick or return my calls,if she tried to pick but only insults and abuse.I became confuse and seek for help,a friend of mine told me to send her some money which i did and since then she started calling me honey,sweety and love.Any month that i did not send money,she will not answer my calls nor call me back.
she was working and refused to disclose to me how much is her salary until she was sacked.

I have not paid for her dowry as she is stil living with her parents,the worst is that she is not a graduate,no handwork and from a very poor family background.she is 22 and the most senior in the family,others are not going to school because of financial handicap.

Please advise me if i am to continue with this marriage or not.She never call or visit my family ever since i left and does not care about them,she never listern to my advise or instructions and if i try to confront her she will ask me who am i to tell her what to do as she has her right to live her life.someone should advise me pls.My family has started to be against this relationship cuz of her behaviour.I am planing to come home by xmas to marry her but i am now confuse on what to do.i have sent her to school and now she is requesting me to rent a house for her in Lagos[/b][/b]