on my syd......my mum is older dan my dad and for once has never disrespected my dad till date,though in this generation i wouldn't advice such, considering the kind of attitude we have in this modern world. moreover if both of u re 20, dont u think u still have a long way to go, if its love ud definately knw. 2 me i jst feel its infantuation.  u guys should stay till 23-24 b4 u conclude ure engaged ..anyway sha u engage to disengage most tyms ...... 

  The man is a big boy......i think i recommend the man for World Guiness book of record they should allow him to break the record after Sulaiman/Solomon..........