As for me I can't cos I will be seeing him as my mate n the respect will not be there. But I will rather prefer an older person than I am[not an old man] Some1 who is 3-4 yrs older than I am will be a perfect match 4 me.

There's nothing wrong in a man checking her woman's phone. If u have nothing to hide why bothering whether ur phone is been checked or not. Try ur best to be open to ur partner and that will solve some problems and will stop another from happening.

Whether she can cook or not should not be a problem for marrying a lady. But the lady in question should be ready to learn how to cook if she doesn't want to lose her man. Most men will not consider it necassary but if by mistake they are given a palatable food prepared by their friend's wife, they will be compelled to eat the same palatable food in their home. Some bad friends will go a long way into deceiving them to look for a girl outside who can cook very well n b4 u know it, he is already in love thinking of how to bring her in. U that doesn't know how to cook will end up been thrown out of ur matrimonial home simply because u were damn sturbborn. Ladies, u better learn how to cook b4 getting married if u must not lose ur man.

Marriage is an ordained sacrament from God n should not be toiled with. It is all about understanding, letting go somethings to make ur partner happy, thinking of ur partner first b4 urself. In marriage u should know it is not friendship that u can just start n end abruptly if u r not comfortable with ur guy but a lifetime committment, once u r in, u r in 4eva n no more coming out. So my dear, search urself very well to see if u r really ripe for it. Take care n don't make a silly mistake.