ok this is my story.
i came to US ever since i was 10 yrs old (am 21 Now) anyway i have this childhood friend whom am very close with. his father and my father were very close so i guess u can call u family friends. me and him talk almost everyday, he is very caring, sincere. he is everything i want in a man and i am inlove with him. Now this is the story i went to nigeria this summer of 09 and he asked me to be his girl friend and i agreed and i have just learned this same year that his grandmother was a very close friend of my grandfather and his grandmother was married by a women who couldnt have a baby so his grandmother begged my grandfather to help them out and she had three children by my grandfather as a favor and his father was ond of them. my parents neva told me this ( they passed away and that was the reason my fathers sister adopted me and i came to united states).
since i found this out, my life has not been the same. i dont no what to do but i do no that i want to spend the rest of my life with him (since am a citizen, i am currently working on his papers to come over). right now i am a junior in nursing school and will not be able to suppose him but he is expected to be here in a year by then i have my bachelor in nursing and be living on my own. so my their people what do u guys suggest i do. i reallly really love him and the same goes for him and i am stuck between listening to my family (we plan on getting married) or doing what will make me happy? any suggestions will really help thank you.