who ever u are u have to be careful with the person cos he has done once so there is a possibilty that he will do it again if that spririt comes upon him again.unless he his a change person thats under the infulace of God and the holyspirit.
pls folow heart if u konw that u can cope with such a person.

if u v marriage in mind n he is the kind of person u wnt 2 spend the rest of ur life with,u guys should define that relationship,so that u will knw wat u doing.