well i don't know how it is for guys when dey wait, but me as a girl i plan to wait because i feel lyke a man will respect me more knowing i waited, as hard as it is these days, u knoe? and as spiritual as i am, for me to lose it now, i would feel lyke i failed god in some way. but see i think it's okay for me to remain a virgin till i get married, but if i don't knoe if i would want to marry a virgin...i mean, if i don't knoe what im doing and my husband doesn't knoe wat he's doing, then....u see the complication? lol but yea whether u should lose it or not depends on u solely and how u feel about who ur losing it to. but remaining a virgin until ur married CAN b done. it's HARD...ooh trust me, but it can b done.