i go with u agabs, dat  okemnachi may not be a nigerian, that means she must probably  not known whom chinue achebe is, if she had known him, i wonder how dare she speak of him like that

i also think that, that ur friend must be too rigid and he is not really a good friend. he must be cheating u all the way.

 @ won1, i wonder oo!, @ piustosan tell him jare

what ever,  it all depends on personality simple, u can get the best woman there, u can get the wrong and worst one there too. put ur eyes down, u see wat u want and go 4 it guy, don't hesitate to go 4 wat u want or u will have a regret all through ur life and ur friend may not share the burden of an unhappy home with u, even if he will, u will have the larger potion of the pains and sorrows. just follow ur heart but use ur head.

nurses re one of the most wonderful set of people, and ur initial views about them is just pure true and there are more to that.  wat ur friend said about nurses is not a good and enough reason why u should not marry one if u see the one u like. see , life people lives all depends on personality, some people in certain fields does exactly wat these nurses did, does in school, both sec and university level, workers, bankers, mention them, tell me where have u not heard of something like that? but is not all of them that is promiscuous, its a personal decision, am not a nurse, but if am a man, i must marry a nurse, cus they are well  packaged.
        ur friend should have gone to d most remote village and pick a lady who has never attended even nursery or primary school. or are u sure he is not envying u 4 going 4 wat is beautiful?  by the way, is he not promiscuous himself? by keeping more than   2 nurses at the the same time and at the same place. live the spoilt nurses, get a God fearing or good one, or is there no one that fears the lord there?