Well, we can definitely term this a blessing but if it turns out to be another source of government exploitation, or even another factor to fight for in that belt of the nation, then it should be termed a curse... The government should apply wisdom cause it is profitable to direct...

Just Imagine someone is still talking about repaying those that started this... we should be thinking of how to prevent future issues like this... and besides, this country is in a big mess already so it will require more than prayers but an individual change of mindset first.

Why call off a marriage that is not off? in the sense that u got married and u r having family challenges, so F*$%K what! u are a man, so u should stand and solve ur own problems and not run away from them like a chicken!!! TRY PUTING GOD FIRST ANYWAY CUS WITH HIM, ERRTING IS POSSIBLE.  after that, u should do an STS. Sit, Think and Strategize. THE LORD IS UR STRENGTH.