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Do you play hard to get because you do not want to come off as too easy? Does playing games make you more desirable?

When you play hard to get, the only type of men you will attract are players. Players are thrilled with the chase and those who love the chase are the ones who will break your heart.

By playing games, you spark a lot of interest and curiosity and make it all extremely exciting. However, this excitement dies as soon as he has 'caught' you. In most cases, chances are, he will leave you as soon as the game is over. When you play games, you are pretending. You are not your true self. So unless you keep on playing games for the whole duration of your relationship, the excitement that was initially created will die. This is because players do not want a long term relationship. They are happy with a short term passionate affair where they can move on and enjoy the next game that leads up to another conquest. Relationships that start off by playing games never last. Besides, why would you ever want to be in a superficial relationship?

Playing hard to get is not love. It is CONTROL. Relationships that are based on control, where one person dominates is NOT healthy. In this case, the only person you need to control is you.

Mind games are tiring. REAL men do not play games. They know what they want. A REAL man who is truthfully seeking a long term and mature relationship wants an upfront woman desiring the same thing and not someone who plays hard to get or who feels dating is merely a game.

If you pretend to be someone else, you may ward off the good men and end up with players who will only break your heart. When you're genuine, you will attract mature, genuine and quality men that you truly deserve.

Ray

hey all y'all guys here, is not as if ladies are hard to please is just that they pretend alot,  most of them have this mind set that if they commit too much to a particular guy that the guy might take them for granted. that's 1 of the barrier in a relationship. is always better to try and act than to be afraid of failure. why would a relationship last when there no no strong commitment.

Trust me guys it's up2you to find out from your girl except you are not smart enough.

They say what will be will be, but if you are not doing the right thing my sisters it might take whole lot of time.

I'm not against any gender here just trying to come out straight. i don't blame the ladies coz most guys are too daft to know the qualities of a lady and what it takes to keep it going. And for the ladies i think you deserve the best
 
Safe.

Ray

They say that when it comes to love, age doesn't matter. but maturity does matter for marriage to work, and usually maturity comes with age because you'll have more experiences in life as you get older.

So you may ask, why do woman want to get marry? To many girls out there the answer may be relatively simple, "I fell in love", or he was everything I have ever wanted in a man. Many girls may have other reasons such as segxwal urges, appearing grown up or just being free from parents. and finally to get married early so her time will not pass her by.

Can any single lady here give a brief and specific reason(s) why she is interested in getting married. and also on her point of views about the major things that makes a good marriage.

No punk as* Negro's, important topic for serious individuals only.

You can't answer that question scientifically nor biblically on account of the lack of necessary evidence. According to the Biblical Creation, Adam was the first human, created by the Lord on the 6th day. Eve was the first woman.  so tell me now which of the gender's came 1st to the world. b4 woman enter we don already come survey how e dey go. so sweetie-pie's get it off ur mind that gurls are smarter than guys