All of yu are missing out;

they are dating not married.
she is his woman not his wife.

The issue & question to answer is that ,.......why keeping such a relationship that is
inimical to your career.If she is a wife ,well we say yu have to manage the situation.
Gentleman,quit.!!! run,leave her. Sory am very brut handling that truth!!!!!!!

There is hardly a man who doesnt call another girl or woman. There is hardly a woman who doesnt either. Most are not for any funny thing anyway.Must we need to tell our partner whom we call......?

Phone monitoring connotes insecurity,immaturity,jealousy, intolerance etc,what is the end result ? Suspicion, querrels, fight,hatred divorce. Why do we need to light up fire that will burn our house?

If you think your man/woman is looking outside,1st solve the problem from your self,before you can solve his /hers. For every effect ,there is a cause.If he falls ,you are aslo weak.If you are weak,you cant rescue and if you fight you fail. Let there be peace in your home. See him/her as a little offender ,correct him/her with love.