they are generally confused...they really want something but they dont know wat and nothing is eva good enuf 4 them...so the idea of a real man is complete bullshit.....wen every man always lacks one thing...all the ladies are always almost there...they nevr get there...love is the ultimate..it just makes the imperfect PERFECT OR NEAR PERFEC...the sooner our ladies realiz dat,the more romantic life would turn out.....