U realy have to make it up with your mind. If you must explaine, try to make him understand how you realy love him and that you want the sex to come in a special way. To tell you the truth, any lady who keep's herself up to her wedding day is really a special lady. So tell him that you want to be that special lady for him. But if he insist, don't foreget to use condum.

      wishing you good lock,
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