i think u shuld open up 2 ur wife maybe she will ve a better solution 2 this matter,stop keepin her in  the shadows.cos it would be wrong 4 her 2 hear it else whr which is very hrt breaking.n if she is a very sensiblen loving wife she will know the mature n sensible role 2 play n how 2 advice n keep her man.this i tink is the best solution 4 now.

hell is real,so we all ve 2 be very careful.becos wht we do will determine where we will go