whenever ur ready again, i can guarantee it wont be so quick. a very very long time, if u truly loved the person. some people choose to stay widows because they would rather be lonley, loving only that one person that they were with then marrying again, and trying to let go of them. but it depends on the type of person u are
but i know a lot of people who re-marry in a rush for family purposes such as they need someone to watch over the kids, and they know deep down inside no one can really ever replace the one they were with

I've heard of women dating the day after the funeral and it sounds sort-of suspicious to me. Maybe she wasn't happy in her marriage and is glad that it's over. I guess I shouldn't judge, but it does seem that way to me. I guess there could be other reasons though.