There is not need to personally assail or inquisit the lady imho. It's a public forum, people should feel free to write generally or personally. thanks both for your answers thus far...

I am guessing I am not in tune with the dating tone of naija these days so wanted to throw out this question. I ask because I am surprised at many women i met in naija hold on to the concept of marriage like some cult doctrine. Mind you, I have nothing against marriage, it's good for a stable society and community but must it be a requirement? Am I just ranting to myself?