There is everything wrong in finncing and even contributing in anyway to assist a man financilly when he does not have. i had taken over the responsibility of catering for our son, myself, him and his youbger ones but for one day i was never allowed any happines from him and his family members.

out of the food stuff i struggled to buy, the younger ones give them out to friends, the father and sister come regularly to attack me that i dnt give them money even when they know their son had lost his job and he just sits and watches to the extent his father came to phisically abuse me callking me all manner of names and accusing me to be from a cursed family, if not thyeir son wouldnt have lost his job less than two years after our marriage.

when he got his job he became very terrible and even accused me of not wantin him to get a job.