oh Men..its normal to fall in love..ins't? but the problem here is the man was married already so it depends on the man how he will react for this kind of treatment..thats why sometimes theres come a time that the man cannot resist the girl so they will be together even it is not good..so the poor wife will suffer from it..according to the man..he wil just try to give something to the girl eventhough he didnt think that is it not good coz his family will suffer from it..so i advise for those people who experience this kind of feelings try to avoid it and try to help the girl in case he is inlove with the married man that nothing will happen..only she will get hurt by her wrong feelings so pray is the best way..God is good..have a nice day..pal!