LOVE is a word most of us hardly understand how to live therein. For me, GOD is LOVE and to live in LOVE is to 1. Be LOYAL to others I have anything to do with;
2. Be OPEN and sincerely be truthful, hiding nothing that will be of help to others I am relating with; 3. Be VALUABLE and very useful to those I am relating with and
4. Be EMPATHETIC with those you are relating with, especially when they are in "difficult" or "adverse" situation.
This is how God relates with all Human Beings He made and He expects us to do likewise to others we relate with.

Normally, a person's words are judged by his corresponding actions. What he is DOING is what he is SAYING and vice versa. His BEHAVIOR and his BELIEF system are on the same page. You should only TRUST any person that is "speaking" the TRUTH i.e. saying what he genuinely means from the depths of his heart; for that is what he will really do. This can only be achieved by CLOSELY OBSERVING the person in question. His ACTIONS must match-up his WORDS and vice versa.

Marriage is actually for those who are very responsible. You are first expected to be a RESPONSIBLE person before you get married. Sadly most people (male and female) that are married today are more IRRESPONSIBLE than those who are not married.