IF YOU WANT TO DO THE CHURCH WEEDING, YOU CAN DO IT AS YOU ARE OR YOU CAN LEAVE IT AND DO ONLY TRADITIONAL WEEDING. WHAT REALLY MATTER'S IS FUTURE.

i will like to advice you, first Sister you did wrong by telling him that her Girlfriend is cheating him, secondly, you did it because you love the guy very well, you suppose to advice your Girl Friend and if she did not accept your advice, you cut off your relationship with her and leave the guy to find out by him self, if the guy find out and come for you is very nice, now you think that you love the guy and the guy loves you, if you later marry the guy, your friend will never forgive you in her life time and when her baby grow up, he will hear that you are the person that cost problem between her mother and father, that time maybe his mother has marry another man or she is still single, i don't think that he will be happy with you, but i just advice you. you still have to make your choice, the will of God must surely come to pass.

for me. i believe that a guy or lady that falls in love is not a fool in any way, because is nature  and it may come to any one, once you find the person that you love...... God love us and gave his only son, that is mean that God is a foolish person or he did not have wisdom, so if you have to fall in love today dose not mean that you can not fall in love when you find the person you love.........

you will answer her question, if you know that you really love her, just answer that you don't know why you love her.

i think that age have nothing to do with marriage, because i had saw a man  who married in the age 30 but no peace in his marriage, then i had also saw a boy of 21 age who married a girl of 20 age and they are very very happy in they marriage, so in my own understing i don't think that age have any thing to do with marriage, if a man have money and he is sure that he can take care of his wife and chid, you can ask God to give you your own wife.