hi,
it doesn't take much to get a good wifey. All you need to do is to go on your knees and pray earnestly, even if it requires fasting, do it. Many are regreting there marriages today, But bear in mind that there is "NO" MR or MISS PREFECT. You need tolerance and accommodation to achive your aim. Mind you, you are two different people from different background coming together to live as one. You need GOD and his grace. Go for one you truely love because love covers all sins.