???Hello. I need help with answers. I met a African man. He told me about his situation shortly after we met. I liked him and agreed to wait. He promised me the world one he was cleared. After wailting almost a year for my boyfriend to get his paperwork together, he is still making excuses. I waited 7 1/2 months for him to get Id. Them 3 more for his divorce. He just got that last week. Now he says he needs time to sort out his feelings. He does not come to visit me. If I dont go to his job where he works at night I dont see him. He Is still acting strange. When I try to talk to him about it he says that he loves me and not else but the waiting and not knowing is killing me. I dont know what to thinkI feel hurt and used because i refraned from dating other people even when lots of eligable men was all around. Now I feel to lost and torn apart to look elswhere. What should I do ?