i share ur feelings.i had a gay friend and we were quite close we used to hang out and he kept telling me things that actcually helped me in my relationship then.i found out he had a heart of gold.initially,i was disgusted wit him but he told me he had never felt like a guy in his whole life and to him it was just a normal thing he was doing!i couldn't hold it against him.and because we respected each other,i accepted him and we didn't have any problems.truth is i saw as a woman!