
Then it is not real Love, when it has to be helped Either Through Oath, Charm or any other form apart from real self being. When partners take an oath they feel nothing else could bring them apart and they fail to think about tomorrow. life is all about agonies joys, laugh and cry and the more you are both able to figure out solutions during the difficult moments without any oath or charm then you know it is real Love. Oath makes your partner act anyhow since he /she belief you already had something that wouldn't bring you apart. then you wouldn't have the chance to figure out who he/she really his. through some test an challenges you may give them. because they already know the final answer even before you started. so in short oath brings nothing to your relationship rather than to destroy your hearth silently and yet still hav no chance to get out from it "till death do you both apart"
thanks
wale.