Married man, single lady, pls pls pls, she knows what she wants thats why she got involved in the first place.  If the married man now falls in love and wants the love for keeps, what does the single lady want? It is what you want you get. She wants the married man's money and comfort, Married man wants pleasure, so if either one says they are no longer interested, just walk away except she depends on the married  man for everything and so scared of discomfort if she leaves. You cant eat your cake and have it.