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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: My German Embassy lover impregnated me and fled |
on: 28-09-2010 11:28 AM
| Dumped girl, you are a big fool. You are a fool. A very big one.
You got pregnant to keep some white-man or something like that.
Your story reeks and insinuates your criminal mind state.
First, you got pregnant. Next you were willing to perform the abortion but didn't have the money. H ha ha hah ah. From the write up, it wasn't out of love for the child or some high moral standard that kept you from the abortion. Ha hah ahah. It was the fee of a 150,000 Naira.
The question I will ask is, "if it was a regular Nijah broke boy responsible for the baby, will you demand for a 150,000K and if yes, if he doesn't come up with the money, will you not find it from another source?"
I won't be surprised if you went all out to get this child and have the guy spend part of his income on you for life. You said he wasn't letting you get close, you said he had a child, you said he didn't have a wife, you said he never lets you stay at the embassy apartment or bla bla bla, and yet, you offered your ******.
I thought that a guy who likes you will flaunt you. Is that not what guys do? Do men not flaunt girls that they are crazy about? Nope. When a grown man genuinely likes a woman, he doesn't try to cover up. Except the girl wishes it so.
You saw the signs and yet you let yourself get pregnant. You knew deep down that it wasn't a serious relationship. You knew it was a fling you guys where having. You had ulterior motives.
================== They are two sides to a coin. I haven't seen the second side. This side I have seen is bland; poor engraving. Hmn!
Is not enough for u to call her a fool. she probably taught it will get better, Most women run after men that don´t really want them , and men do the same. It is a philosophy that U and i can´t explain. She would have probably only said how she was abandoned and kept the other details to her self. She is definitely very open, and it is not the best way to go about things. My prayer is that things get better for her and her Baby. | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: My German Embassy lover impregnated me and fled |
on: 28-09-2010 11:05 AM
| @chioma1020 you know very well without the father i mean evidence that the father is a german, German jugendamt will not listing to her.
the only solution now is, if any organization like human right can help her trace the man and make him to sign as the father of the baby,then the rest will be much easier to fulfill(child care,citizenship.etc) Once the father signs, the rest fall in place, The child has the right to live in Nigeria or Germany and the mother has to choose where they live. Biestand hilfe is a provision made by the germans to help children get their fathers to sign . I do not see any case here, i only see lack of information and proper filling in of documents. Since the child father is suspected to be german, the child has a right to beistand hilfe, and since beistand hilfe must be applied in person, they (mother and child) have a right to visa, for this application. . I still think she should make an appointment in this office, and apply for a visa on that regard. | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: My German Embassy lover impregnated me and fled |
on: 28-09-2010 10:43 AM
| @chioma1020 you know very well without the father i mean evidence that the father is a german, German jugendamt will not listing to her.
That is why she needs a beistand hilfe, this is a provision made for such cases ( where the child has right to his or her father signing to this regard) . Since the beistand hilfe must be applied for in person, i think she should call and make an appointment on this regard. she should stop going to front of the embassey to create scene. apply for visa and lay ur case here. | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: My German Embassy lover impregnated me and fled |
on: 27-09-2010 03:31 PM
| oh pls tell Rose the simple truth. this is just a norm here. so many children don't knw their father. Our african brother does the same here. the girls dont go to nigeria embassy to ask for compensation or wateva. For God sake you guys were not married. Your lawyer wont do nothing about it. rather keep you cask and take good care of you child. cheers
My bro, a child burn to a german parent has a right to citizenship and monthly up keep. She should fight for it. My daughters dad is german so i know that rose is missing alot ,until she gets her right.She has to fight wisely. | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: My German Embassy lover impregnated me and fled |
on: 27-09-2010 03:16 PM
| Don't Mind those people abusing you, most of them wish they were in your shoes, or could have a piece of you. well you can claim German citizenship for your child at-least his future may not be bleak afterwards okay. The Germans changed their citizenship laws. Try to read this : German citizenship is based primarily on the principle of jus sanguinis. In other words one usually acquires German citizenship if a parent is a German citizen, irrespective of place of birth. A significant reform to the nationality law was passed by the Bundestag (the German parliament) in 1999, and came into force on 1 January 2000. The new law makes it somewhat easier for foreigners resident in Germany on a long-term basis, and especially their German-born children, to acquire German citizenship. The previous German nationality law dated from 1913. The amendments to the law under the Nazi regime were repealed by the Federal Republic of Germany (see the article on the Reich Citizenship Law) This site will give you other useful information. http://www.auswaertiges-amt.de/diplo/en/WillkommeninD/EinreiseUndAufenthalt/Staatsangehoerigkeitsrecht.html Good research. Rose pls do all u can to get a schenge visa, and lay ur case here in germany , fighting from nigeria might just be too hard. there is an office called jugendamt u can apply for a( beistand hilfe ) for ur child. the application is only done in person.Call and make an appointment, then apply for a german visa regarding this appointment, prove to them that u can take care of urself financially for ur ur stay here just for the appointment. If they turn ur visa application down, petition the Office of the German foriegn Office, and the Bundesministerium fÜr familie, Senioren, Frauen and Jungend. Ur child has a right to this application for beistand hilfe, which means that that the german goverment is suppose to actually fight for the child not U. | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Another Scandal Rocks Ambrose Alli University |
on: 27-07-2010 12:55 PM
| Madam chioma1020, are u birds of a feather with dis slut? bcos iam surprise d way u have standin as her advocate. u heard the latest story that d man has not even slept with her only 4 her 2 go and organise her cohort 2 humiliate the 'innocent' man who is old enough to be her father. i pray she is expelled from the school to roam d street and know how difficult it is to earn 10k not 2 talk of 100k that she robed the man defenceless man of.
I can as well say Ur mother is a bigger slut, all ur sisters and ur born and unborn daughters are all sluts, but i will not do that, it is not my style. I am a mother and God has blessed me so much that i can not wish people evil. I wish people repentance and Gods Blessings. U get what u wish other people so be carefull! | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Another Scandal Rocks Ambrose Alli University |
on: 26-07-2010 07:46 PM
| Some call U a bitch, some say u do not look like a student, some say u are a disgrace, no matter what u will loose, no matter the stress this whole mess will bring, just remember that U are a special person. U are my special Judith and very special to so many victims of segxwal abuse out there.
sister, y u de talk like dat, u are 2 sentimental, both d 2 of them play a major role in d whole affair, the lady has also a larger share of the act. I feel u bro. We all react to this differently. Just as we have different life experience, education,location,religion and sex. | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Another Scandal Rocks Ambrose Alli University |
on: 26-07-2010 07:37 PM
| all of u that dont want 2 accept dat wat dis prostitute and her cult cohorts did 2 d man is total abuse are just like the slut herself. the most important question is that did he rape her? NO!!!!! he demanded for sex inoder to pass her as a student (which i doubt she is). now if he fails to keep to his own end of the bargain y not report him to relevant authorities? but she shamelessly thinks that she is diagracing the man extorting 0.5 million naira from him ( her own that of the whole queue that i saw in the latter end of the video) not knowin dat she has successfully disgraced herself. shameless prostitute who has no parental upbring and no future. u will continue ur sleeping under the bridge wen the ill-extorted 100k finish dat very day. SHAMELESSSS SLUT
U are not God to say some one has no future and to even think that she will sleep under one bridge, U might just die of cancer or tumor 2morrow. the only thing that is steady in life is change. People have right to think how ever they want, this is mostly influenced by education and religion and even expiriences in life. Stop calling people sluts! | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Another Scandal Rocks Ambrose Alli University |
on: 26-07-2010 06:52 PM
| Some call U a bitch, some say u do not look like a student, some say u are a disgrace, no matter what u will loose, no matter the stress this whole mess will bring, just remember that U are a special person. U are my special Judith and very special to so many victims of segxwal abuse out there. | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Another Scandal Rocks Ambrose Alli University |
on: 26-07-2010 06:30 PM
| that girl his a shame to woman hood, she think she is disagree the man , but she his a ashowo
HAVE U EVER BEEN THREATENED WITH UR FUTURE B4? HAVE U EVER BEEN SUBJECTED TO AN UNMERITED, UNJUSTIFIABLE, CONFUSED & HELPLESS SITUATION BY JUST A MAN, WHEREBY UR FAMILY & FRIENDS ´LL BE WATCHING BUT COULD DO NOTHING? DO U KNOW WHAT IT MEANS TO PULL A WOMANS VIRTUE TO THE DUST AGAINST HER WISH IN THIS 21ST CENTURY? HAVE U EVER BEEN IN A MESS; U TRY THINKING BUT COULD NOT FIND UR BRAINS? Thanks my sister, i was in short of words to read all sorts of rubbish from my fellow women . U have said it all. | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Woman Sues Shell For N750m |
on: 26-04-2010 06:37 PM
| She is not asking for Nigeria´s money, She is asking a company where she worked b4 and which is solidily rich for a common 750m naira, That is not up to what ur leaders use to send thier children abroad for common Head ache, of course she will not ask for so much if the firm is a small one. Going to court to ask for compensation is not bad at all. People should wake up and start going to court. At least other mothers will hear this and know that they can go to court to ask for compensation. I just imagine what this poor woman has been going through in a society where there is no provision for disabled people. I understand when people do not go to court because of fear,U sue some one today, they will send assassin to u tommorrow. God bless Nigeria, God Arrest Our Leaders.
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Woman Sues Shell For N750m |
on: 23-04-2010 08:42 PM
| It seems the childs brain problem was caused by lack of oxygen during birth, Is high time Nigerians start going to court. Is a shame that people think that shell is doing so much by giving medical treatment to thier employees. That is 100% thier responsibility. This lady had her previous baby through caesarian section. It means she has a history of having complications during labour, am sure this was the proplem, I wish her all the best. | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Call girls revolt, say nobody can chase us out of Abuja |
on: 29-01-2010 05:02 PM
| From history, prostitution is a very old business. Any one who goes into marriage bcos of money is also prostituting. I bet they protect them selfs more than a cheeting husband or a cheeting wife. It should simply be legalised by law and registered by the police. this is the only way the goverment can control them. Arrest for illegal prostitution can be understood. | | | |