well u knpo what u want, so no man can dictate 4 u,if u a very sure that u dont want her again let her undastand that n stand ur ground not sayi no n yes,she is jux using woman power on u n once u fall a vitim,it bcom everlasty cross that u ve to bear,mind u breakage in courtship is beta of mariage.S  H  I  N  E    U R  E Y  E OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Yah notin is wrong in marrying ur age mate infact the most important  tin is understanding and sincere wt honest love.i can as well marry somebody i senior. is no prob at all.