I think u run into bad hands,please don't deceive other people,I live US befor coming to japan,You are just talking bull sheet,then why are u coming back home Huh!!! becouse u can not meet up re bills. life in america and nigeria is never the same,in nigeria we have culture,that`s don`t mean we enslave women.so i think u have alot of stress,if u don`t change,u will remain single with ur america mentality.