pastor!!!!!! this is too much!! aba!!, you should know better!! sincerely, this is not good enough!!! don't give people opportunity to say things, you're a public figure for  Christ sake. for the fact that some pastors did it and got away with it  does not make it right. may it not affect your ministry. there are 1001 ways to resolve such issues. pastors teach us these things, i wonder why they cannot live by what they teach their congregation!