It is an abormination onto God for a man to have 2 wives,again it is not good for a woman to be second wife because later when the man died ,it brings a problem that will affect her and the future of the family, am a withness of such, the two wife started killing each other cos of property of the man,my daugther cant be second wife but if she insist that she will go, I cant never appear if she has problem in that family again if d family that wants to marry my daugther doesn't like her ,she will not go to that famuily, is also a problem people face today and by that your daugther will be have problem of having child,so please woman becareful and not to do what you will regret or blame God.thanks