I wont say you are totally right, because the word "CULTURE" is used out of context in this writeup. Like you writely said those societies are societies where young adults have liberty to explore and issues such as sex education which some people see as a taboo in our part of the world is being exposed to the young people in those societies. Moreover,most of the instances you might be referring dont end up as success stories, most of them are just what i'll term trial and error.
The thing with the Nigeria scenario is the case of pretence. We all pretend as if this things dont happen in Nigeria.

This is a question that has no definite answer as far as i am concerned.
Firstly, we need to have a fundamental definition of cheating.
Secondly we need to contexualise it.
So, i'll say that it's an habit that some of us (i am also a man) find difficult to do away with to the extent that it has become a cankerworm that has eaten deeply into the souls of some.
Some fall into it through peer pressure, even some respectable persons in the society. mentioon them our professors, doctors, engineers, ministers, commissioners, senators, and the list goes on an on.
It takes a real man to decide what he wants and be satisfied from within with his companion.

That does not mean i'll exonerate women who cheat as well.
You all should repent.!!!!

At least some group of people can come out in the open about their demeanour. Though I am not in support of the act but let get somethings straight here, we've been reading in the prints cases of young men being lured into this same act but we tend to overlook that only to castigate those that have nerve to assemble and attract people of like characters in the open.

This is subject to debate in all ramifications.

Men, its a tough and bitter experience, but i always belive that it is in most cases for good. I so much believe that if someone decides to dump you, please take time to reflect on your dealings with that character but the bottomline is He/She is not meant for you. You should be grateful that you've not gone too far before the dumping happens.
I'll do nothing but thank God for delivering me from that daughter of Jezebel!!!

Not at all Rulz, but there has to be an attachment, some connection which i think some girls are shy to express. I've come across some guys that are also into fronting as well!!!!!!!!!!!!

Eish, i think i now have a rough idea of wat "fronting" is.
Let me classify the term "fronting" in the same class of "Hard to get".

I honestly dont believing in holding back ones' feeling these, we're in the 21st century for heavens sake.
Lots of girls have lost out on good guys because of this attitude, so far there is a chemistry and you're keen to do the biology then let physics takes it course.

This is my take on the issue.

So wats d meaning of this fronting thing??? Just curious and lost

I agree with you because one with God is the majority and with God on your side all things are possible

Love is when you're determined to work out your possibilities in the midst of impossibilities

These days most people find it hard to answer some honest and simple questions like this. wat does a man want in a wonam or vice-versa.

There is so much muddling up of terms these day but the fact still remains that all guys and all girls wants to settle down someone that would love them for whom they are.

I have friends that have gold but would want to check out silver and before you know it they might miss out on what is good for them while trying to check out what is not there.

i believe that no one is perfect even you and i but it takes a good heart to appreciate one for who he/she is and try to improve on that. For instance, i can say that i want a perfect woman, when i know that i'm not perfect.

Let us all learn to appreciate what we have as one cannot give what one doesnt have.

The fact still remains that the foundation most relationships these days are based on deceit, pretense and all sorts of ills. I still believe that pple can still have decent relationships but all depends on the foundation.

I so much believe that if a guy start asking a girl to sleep wit him within a short period into d relationship as in this context, my sister please dialogue with your legs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sorry guys, just joined the thread. Wats is fronting? Some of us needs some refreshers course here

Men, with me i always love taking one step at a time.
I've been in situations where i taught that the person had a hit on me but she actually proved my thought wrong. She was just in her natural mood. Though she was single then but i got the whole thing wrong.

But in this case, i think that you must draw the line between an affair and relationship. It's your boss we're talking about, moreover its not that she is the CEO or Director General, you both work for Yaradua (Not sure of the spelling).

I'll advise that you don't get too busy with the thought in your mind, be careful, watch your steps and your tongue.

You can as well be bold to ask her what she wants from you, if you think she is going too far.

The ball is in your court and you'll always have a clue to what u'll do.

Be strong, it might be scary in situations like tthis.