i thought that couples should understand themselves before marriage..
so what is the point of getting married and later you are fed up or filing for divorce

arguements during relationship is getting to know each other but arguements in marriage i dont quiet get....
thank you!!
I WANT TO YOU KNOW SOMETHING HERE CAREFULLY,NO MATTER WHAT COUPLES ARE MEANT TO ARGUE,YOU BOTH ARE FROM DIFFERENT HOME,HES NOT PERFECT,SHES NOT PERFECT ,BOTH ARE MEANT TO ARGUE SOMETIMES,BUT THERE IS THIS WORD UNDERSTANDING EACH OTHER,AFTER EVERYTHING YOU MEANT TO TALK TO EACH OTHER AGAIN.BROTHERS AND SISTERS MISUNDERSTAND,DEFIANTLY BOTH OF YOU FROM DIFFERENT HOME WE HAVE TO MISUNDERSTAND SOMETIMES.THOSE THAT DIVORCE,DO NOT HAVE PATIENT,THEY LACK UNDERSTANDING.THE MAN IS THE HEAD OF THE HOUSE,THE WOMAN IS THE NECK OF THE HOUSE.THE HEAD CAN NOT MOVE WITHOUT THE NECK.THE OVERALL ANSWER IS UNDERSTANDING.YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER.YOU NEED TO FIND OUT THE WEAK PART OF EACH OTHER,YOU NEED TO KNOW THAT BOTH OF YOU CANNOT BE PLEASED AT ALL TIME.