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Once you are good at meeting women online, or anywhere for that matter... the next step is to be able to qualify the lady quickly. By qualify I mean to decide whether to see her again and allow her into your life. This is a very important skill for many reasons.

Here is the Killer Mistake a lot of men make:

They spend too much time with a woman they should have "disqualified" 20 minutes after they met her. Mainly because they’re glad to meet any woman who shows an interest in them.

What’s the best way to avoid the pain and hassle of a bad partner?

To be able to disqualify a future partner! Not easy I know.

See, the men that are good with women, don’t waste their time and energy on someone they instinctively know is going to be trouble. These guys have good qualifying skills, being able to move on quickly from un-responsive or unsuitable women. Then spending their time with only highly qualified dates.

This is effective time management for producing the best results!

So how do you qualify you ask?

Mmmmhhh, good question and a skill not practiced by many.

Let’s look at it and give an example.

What men good with women do is to have clearly defined criteria and as soon as they identify a trait that is outside of their criteria, they politely discontinue interest and move on.

You need to know what your desired outcome is.

Whether it is finding one lady for a permanent one on one committed relationship. Or you may want adventure and good times without too much commitment. If you don’t decide your desired outcome, you can’t define your ideal dating partner. Once you do know your outcome, however, the next step is to define the criteria of the "ideal dating partner."

Once you have that criteria defined, you want to as quickly as possible find out if a woman fits that criteria. If she doesn’t, then you need to spend your time identifying those who do. This is where most men make the ’Killer Mistake.’

They stick with a woman they should "disqualify," hoping she’ll develop the traits they’re looking for. If she doesn’t fit your criteria, decide and move on quickly. Then spend your valuable time and energy finding one who does.

Here’s a common example. If you’re looking to be married, and you’re dating a woman who says, "I just want to have some fun and meet people, and if it goes further, we’ll see what happens," then you need to disqualify her. She’s looking for fun and adventure, not marriage, so she’ll be hard work to change to the traits you are looking for. And waste your valuable time…

Fair enough? So you’ll need to find and spend time with the type of women that suits your criteria. Write your criteria down and look at it BEFORE you send kisses, winks and emails at online dating sites.

If you just want to date and meet as many women as possible, which I did when I first went online to get experience, your criteria can be small. However this gets frustrating and disappointing as you are not spending quality time with quality women. Then a year has gone by and you’ve had a lot of fun, but still not a really special, high quality woman in your life, that I’m sure you desire…

So the key to avoid the ’killer mistake’ with online dating or any dating, is to define what YOU WANT. Then put as much time and energy as you can with women who fit that criteria, quickly moving on from women who don’t.

As hard and harsh as that may be, your success with women will be a direct result of how you manage your time! This will lead you to finding the type of woman who you want and look forward to spending time with.

This leads to a feeling of well being, success and contentment.

Good luck by
skimmy dating guru

 
I have found that there are five basic types of guys who pull a lot of chicks. They are as follows: 1. Status dudes 2. Money dudes 3.Player dudes 4. Funny/jerky dudes 5. Thugs/bad boys . If you fit into more than one category, you’ll pull even more broads.

I believe the reason all these guys are successful is because they all have unique qualities or characteristics that make ladies take notice.

Women like status because they like important men--guys that stand above the rest of the pack.

Women like guys with cash not only for the cash but because it sets them apart from all the broke ****s everywhere around them.

Women love players for many reasons--the confidence, charm, but social proof helps also. Social proof basically says to a girl that if all these other chicks want this guy, there must be a reason. So the confidence, smooth conversation, charm, and social proof all set him apart from the scrubs and the mediocre guys.

Women like funny/jerky guys because the confidence they display (they’ll talk to anybody and say anything and not give a ****). Also, they’re unpredictable, because you never know what they’ll say or do next and that brings excitement, mystery, and a little thrill to the game. So that makes them stand out from the pack of nice, sweet, sensitive losers who watch like hungry ass dogs on the sidelines begging for a scrap to fall their way.

Finally, we have the thugs/bad boys. Women love their confidence (even cockiness) and they too are unpredictable. They too will say anything and do anything and not give a ****. They also have the element of danger with them that many women find intoxicating. Women get addicted to men that put them on emotional rollercoaster rides.

What do all these guys have in common? They main thing is that they all in one way or another have or do or say stuff that sets them apart from the pack.

In ancient times, women were the most attracted to the guy with the biggest spear, or the best hunter or warrior, or who was the leader of tribe or city. Those ancient instincts are still as alive and well in these modern broads as it was in those ancient broads thousands of years ago.

Bottom line, do something, say something, or get something that makes you stand out from the pack and women will take notice. I guarantee it. Peace and good luck!!
by skimmy the dating guru