Hey, take my lil silly advice, she might be a gemini or aquarius or somthing of that nature... Thats their personality except they see otherwise, there's nothing you can do to make them any different. As someone rightfully suggested, patience and prayer, but the question is how much longer can you relally wait??? She is 25, hmmm... Start letting go of her from inside for she might not change and even if she does, not right now... The question really is, what do you really want in a lady??? she still has YEARS ahead of her as well as friends that STRONGLY influence her, so, you dont really mean much to her right now.. "I love you" is a statement anyone can use, trust me. 
God be with you as you make to take your decision. Your happiness, joy and peace of mind lie in your hands... Get to understand yourself first then it will be easier to know what king of person you'll like to spend your life with... Its is easier said than done... I am presently doing this right now, and trust me, this it and will always remain the most difficult thing in the world for me, but i have to let go and fast...no more heart breaks!!!

It is really hard to blame A or B or C. The standard of living and survival in Naija is very high and hard for so many people. But, it's things like this that push us backwards instead of forward. What else can I say other than - May the continuous and persistent prayers of all those praying for the nation never cease that God may intervene and save our Nation and of course our people.   

lol... thats ok, i am not into that though, but the reality should be our focus, and not the looks of the other, so you watch it, for it is really and truelly not easy to be a successful man whichi believe you want to be... Focus  young man, focus...

what ever you guys say, leave the bride and groom alone and go and look for yours... why sit and bother yourselves about someother person who has so many wives and children, cant you see that he knows little for his age? live and let live pple... If she loves him, then so be it. ahhhhh.....

Lord, we call on your devinr intervention. Please do not let of such evil take place in your beloved country, Nigeria... PLease, there's no time for such talks, we'll do our part, then we shall leave the rest to God who knows it all.