I wish i 'd 've the time to read all these qualities above, but sorry i can't. It's called 'письмо' in Russian. pronounced 'pismo' which means 'letter'
I understand how u feel Mr. Poster cos my neighbor (who's a Ghanaian) quarrels with his Ghanaian girl at least once in 2 weeks. Thank God they do quarrel & resolve issues but "must there be a quarrel? "