Why would wanna be with someone that liared to you for three years,you cant build your foundation or marriage on liars,that's a red flag,dump her.

But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry 1Cor 7:36.For as a young man marrieth a virgin,so shall thy sons marry thee:and as the bridegroom rejoiceth over the bride,so shall thy God rejoice over thee.Isa 62:5.So we can deduce from this script that our men and women married early in life and was together for life but today our men n women have learnt the ways of westerners.As long as my spouse is still a virgin, As long as I've engaged her to me,I can marry her at anytime or age that is convenient for us.If a woman decides to get an education to support her man and the family then fine but if otherwise then she needs to re-evaluate herself,she can have a thousand degrees and billions of dollars,if she doesnt have an husband,she is incomplete and miserable,to hell with the feminist movements and women's liberation.

Their throat is an open sepulchre; with their tongues they have used deceit; the poison of asps is under their lips:
Whose mouth is full of cursing and bitterness Rom 3:13-14.I couldnt expect any less from you.

There are two sides to a story,so I wont pass any verdict until I hear her own side of the story,but as someone said if you are in a contract you must abide by it,regardless of the situation,anytime you break a vow there are prices to pay for it.Its because we broke our contract or vows to Yah that we wouldnt have any other gods before Him that gat us exiled out of Israel to be scattered among strange nations.

We all know the deal,the person posting this question knows the answer to it,Naijapals ask some dumb questions just to get its members engaged,I come here just to see what is going with my people but I must confess Naijapals post some very dumb questions,Anyways According to the Law when a man sleeps with a Virgin he must marry her,Yah commanded this because He doesnt want any hoe  in his kingdom (Dt.23:17) but its different today,folks have sex for the fun of it.And if a man entice a maid(virgin) that is not betrothed(engaged), and lie with her, he shall surely endow her to be his wife Ex 22:16.So women who had sex before marriage are wh*res,I didnt say that,the law said that,yall can curse me out all you want.Truth hurts.Coming frm another angle what difference does it make if you sleep with her,if somebody else had already deflowered her,she isnt your first and she might not be your last.It just goes to show that we are morally,socially and spiritually out of order.

The only time you are supposed to copulate and become "one"(united,"inside",attached) to someone is when you are married to them,any other excuse or justification is a violation of YHWH's law.The only time you are supposed to be physically,emotionally,mentally and spirtually and segxwally attached to someone is when you are married to them PERIOD.Yah wont take your excuses on judgement day.And Two shall become 'One", this is a great mystery on a spiritual realm.

In this world that we live in where we are constantly bombarded with erotic images within our enviroment and on T.V,its kind of tough,you have women wearing pants showing their ass,they wear v-necks showing their Bosom ,you have musicians,actors and actress simulating segxwal acts in their movie and music-videos.What I can say is this the more you get the more you want and less is "more".If you never had sex before then you wont know how it feels,but once you taste it,you'd always want to "taste" it again.Accoding to the law you aint suppose to have sex unless you are married.But if you do marry,you and your wife can agree on how long you are going to abstain to give yourself unto fasting and praying.When we have sex we are unclean until the evening after we must have taken a shower as says the law in Leviticus.

Two wrongs dont make a right, why would your spouse cheat on you, if he/she is a god-fearing man or woman.phyuking or fornicating is the norm today,most of the men and women today are fornicators and adulteress, this is what happens in these days,its glamourized on T.V,movies,music-videos,its all around us,but every dog and female-dog(bitch) has its day,so keep on phyuking and call it in a "relationship",a segxwal and sinful relationship,your day is coming.

How can you call an hotel a place of good life, we all know what they do in hotels, all that glitters is not gold.All those nasty hotels will be destoyed when the time comes.

And this is for those feminists,'intellectuals" and stuck-up women who think helping and assisting Husbands not cutty-buddies or boy-toys is slavery,this is what your Creator says thru Paul... I will therefore that the younger women marry( not fornicate or what people call segxwal relationships) bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully 1 Tim 5.

This is going to be a very bitter pill to for conceited women or feminists to swallow if you dont have a righteous man, husband or Head, you are not gonna make it into the kingdom,No baby mama's or single ladies are allowed in the kingdom,curse me out as you please and this is proof... And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name( Be our Husband or Head), to take away our reproach Isaiah 4

Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee Gen 3:16 A woman is created for man's pleasure or delight and a man is created for Yah's delight.There's an order about things,yall saw what happened when Eve disobeyed her Husband's command.When you look at  how we did in the ancient days,our people courted before marrying,you didnt have to test-run the car before you marry,that is fornication,but that is the norm today.You can only find a "cherry" in a grocery store.

   Moreover the LORD saith, Because the daughters of Zion are haughty, and walk with stretched forth necks(with pride) and wanton eyes, walking and mincing as they go(cat walking), and making a tinkling with their feet (cat walking)
Therefore the LORD will smite with a scab the crown of the head of the daughters of Zion, and the LORD will Discover their SECRET parts (buttocks)Isa 3;16,17.Everyone that is proud before Yah, He puts them to shame.If they are proud, then He puts them to shame, He discovers or reveals their private parts, we see this worldwide among our women, it aint just Nigerian women,He discovers the mens private parts too,We see this on porno movies,we see this at the strip club, we see this in schools and churches, on music video's,simply because Yah commanded us to keep His commandments and we didnt, this is why He kicked us out of our land in Israel.We are not Africans or Nigerians.But the Africans sold us Joel 3.We are the children of YHWH pronounced Yahweh, dont you say HalleluYah? His name is YAH PSALMS 68:4. When women wear mens trousers and V-necks,their private part(their behind and Bosom ) is being revealed,Its a judgement from Yah our Creator for disobedience, but they've been liared too that they are sexy,they copy other nations, they copy their dress codes and everything about them, they've forgotten about our Divine Culture,and that is the ways of Abraham,Isaac and Jacob.They are Copycats. If you dont like my response its because it applies to you.Get your act together.