There's no way I would just sit at home all day just to 'please' my husband. The mere fact that your at home ALL day lookin tired and frustrated after caring for the kids day in day out is enuf grounds for the guy to start cheating on u.
All you need now is to nag him about how tired ure feeling and he'll be out marrying a second wife!..
I know this is extreme but its true, men secretly respect a woman who is independent and has her own thing going on..
If i were in this situation, the only compromise i would be giving wud be working from home