There's nothing wrong with being an older woman in love with a younger man. And if he's embarrassed of your age then I think he may need to find him a younger woman. As for love if the two of you really love each other then to hell with what other people think. Other people are not going to love you the way you two love each other. As for myself I am from the US and I'm married to a Nigerian citizen and I am much older then he is. Love conquers all sweetie. We did not consider what people thought of the age difference just as long as we loved each other. And this love we have for each other no other american nor nigerian can give it to us. So enjoy life and stop worrying about what people think, so or do. Now as I said sometime back, if he is embarrassed of the age difference then end it now and find someone to love you for the person that you are despite the age difference. Pray about it.

May their souls rest in peace and may God have mercy on her soul. What would prompt someone to rid of their own flesh and blood? especially an innocient child. God forbid!