do we have to make fun of her? dis is someone in need of advice, y dont u use ur mature minds n tell her some thing reasonable n not killing her the more, she made a mistake by taking such pledge cos i know its hard to keep, but things happen so we can learn lessons so my dear, dont make pledges u cannot honour, could be dangerous.

Look girlfriend, asking for break up gives him more room to hurt u, u love him but believe u me, he loves u no more, his BB has got him more girls so, instead of asking for break up, break up n find ur happiness else where unless u dont want to be happy. I would rather be alone than be in arelationship tha does not make me happy. chikina

I think u shld tell him how u feel abt him, u'll neva kno, he might be feeling d same way bt cos of d SISTER thing, he might be scared to tell u since he has no idea how u might react. Thank God he is ur family friend not ur cousin. i was in such situation once, I had to let her know n know? she asked me y it took me so long to tell her. tell him n kno his reaction den u can decide weda too kip nursing dat feeling for him or for someone else. Chao