Let he who is without a sin, cast the first stone, alas you all cast forth not stone BUT ROCKS (LOL). Majority of men and women are involved in this shit, so don't sweat it. A lady who goes to her "boy or man friend" to catch some "FUN" and receives some token of money or gift from her host or even nothing, but so far "sleeps" with him when they are not married, is no less a sinner than the adulterous woman. It all boils down to F.O.R.N.I.C.A.T.I.O.N and A.D.U.L.T.E.R.Y. Why cast aspersions on the lady when majority of those condemning the woman are also guilty of same offense, but still lucky to be kept alive for them to beg for forgiveness and my GOD who is always ever merciful to forgive all iniquities. I was once involved in this kind'a act too, but GOD saved me and luckily enough NONE of my "concubine/s" kicked the bucket while at it (LAUGHS). Seriously, confess this to God today and he will be more than willing to accept you back into his fold. GOD does not delight in losing sinners to death but for him/her to repent and be saved. Please take this serious. The sins of yester-years will be looked upon on you all, so don't say it was only once or it was 10years ago. A saying in Yoruba goes thus: (the pounded yam of 20 years will remain as hot as ever") words of wisdom. Rather pray for GOD to show compassion on the woman, rather than castrate her, for all have sinned and come short of the glory of GOD. Proverbs 28:13 "Whoever conceals their sins does not prosper, but the one who confesses and renounces them finds mercy". GOD BLESS YOU ALL. Shallom!